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WHY
Shemeiah Bonds I want some feedback.....So I was sitting here thinking and I've come to the conclusion that we have all been in relationships that fell apart for some reason or another ....But, as women we it seems we will lower our standards and accept less for the wrong man...yet we won't swallow our pride or humble ourselves for the right man ....Y
Monday, May 17, 2010
Forgiveness
*** Forgiveness is not a matter of forgetting. Forgiving is a present action; forgetting is a process
of time.
Forgiveness plays a big part in our relationship with the Lord along with Faith but that Is another topic, faith that is.
My cousin and I had a discussion the other day about forgiveness and the levels of forgiveness, something I wasn't aware of. Example, I say I forgive my husband for all the wrong he have done to me, however, I still have flash backs and become angry and disgusted by his prior actions.
Yes, it has a lot to do with trust but forgiveness is the main key.
Another Example, a few people in my family I believe wrong me for as being two face, users, back stabbers etc... and although I love them and say I forgive them and pray for them there is still a place in my heart that hold on to the past. I NEVER KNEW THAT....until this past weekend....
Although I forgave I will never allow you to get close to again ( my defense tack) because I no longer trust you.. yeah, I can hang laugh and talk with you but the bond we once had will never be the same... AND THAT'S BAD ( remember my opinion) because we ask the Lord to forgive us for all the wrong we have done and he do just that..... he throw it into the sea of forgetfulness, right? But.. at the same time We weep what we sow ( we still will be punished for our own actions, so we can learn from our faults) !!!! Actual I'm becoming confused ( God is not a God of confusion, so the devil is in my ear trying to twist me up) so I need my prayer worries to help me me pray for clarity and strength to forgive each and everyone that has caused me to carry this burden....I also ask that my people have been blessed the ability to teach ( explain) give me some feed back!!!
Note: This is truly a battle for me, I love hard and care harder but I refused to be played or treated less then the way I treat you..stranger or no stranger.... I will give my last, will hurt for you, worry about your problem and it has nothing to do with me.....so I know I have a heart but????? I lost.. Help your sister.. Be Blessed!!
Don't for get you can always email me to add an discussion or topic..
of time.
Forgiveness plays a big part in our relationship with the Lord along with Faith but that Is another topic, faith that is.
My cousin and I had a discussion the other day about forgiveness and the levels of forgiveness, something I wasn't aware of. Example, I say I forgive my husband for all the wrong he have done to me, however, I still have flash backs and become angry and disgusted by his prior actions.
Yes, it has a lot to do with trust but forgiveness is the main key.
Another Example, a few people in my family I believe wrong me for as being two face, users, back stabbers etc... and although I love them and say I forgive them and pray for them there is still a place in my heart that hold on to the past. I NEVER KNEW THAT....until this past weekend....
Although I forgave I will never allow you to get close to again ( my defense tack) because I no longer trust you.. yeah, I can hang laugh and talk with you but the bond we once had will never be the same... AND THAT'S BAD ( remember my opinion) because we ask the Lord to forgive us for all the wrong we have done and he do just that..... he throw it into the sea of forgetfulness, right? But.. at the same time We weep what we sow ( we still will be punished for our own actions, so we can learn from our faults) !!!! Actual I'm becoming confused ( God is not a God of confusion, so the devil is in my ear trying to twist me up) so I need my prayer worries to help me me pray for clarity and strength to forgive each and everyone that has caused me to carry this burden....I also ask that my people have been blessed the ability to teach ( explain) give me some feed back!!!
Note: This is truly a battle for me, I love hard and care harder but I refused to be played or treated less then the way I treat you..stranger or no stranger.... I will give my last, will hurt for you, worry about your problem and it has nothing to do with me.....so I know I have a heart but????? I lost.. Help your sister.. Be Blessed!!
Don't for get you can always email me to add an discussion or topic..
Friday, April 23, 2010
What the Bible Says About Divorce
Malachi 2:16 : “‘I hate divorce’, says the Lord God of Israel, "and I hate a man's covering himself with violence as well as with his garment," says the Lord Almighty. So guard yourself in your spirit, and do not break faith.”
"This has been heavy on my heart and although it's the right thing to divorce my husband ( for me to live in peace and be happy). I still have doubt.
1.I feel my kids deserve to grow up in a two family home.
2. Two the kids ( mainly my son) says that he prayed for it to work.
3. For the first time ever in our soon to be 17teen years he never asked me to pray with him our even that he prayed for us.
4. I don't want other men around my kids
****The Cons***
1. I love him to death but I can't stand the thought of being back in love with him ( If that make sense).
2. I don't think that he will be my friend If I walk away.
3. I've out grown him
4. My emotions are based on guilt ( he needs me to stir him the right way. every time I walk away something bad happens to him. He is some what more careful with making choices if I'm with him, I don't want to hurt his feelings_5 That sucka will not take it lightly.6. i don't want him
Help me out you guys. "I REFUSE TO PRAY FOR OUR MARRIAGE TO HEAL...DOES THAT MEAN ALL THIS TIME AM I PARTIAL THE CAUSE BECAUSE I DID NOT ASK GOD HELP IN THE SITUATION? IM I SELFISH BECAUSE I PRAY FOR US TO BE FRIENDS?
"This has been heavy on my heart and although it's the right thing to divorce my husband ( for me to live in peace and be happy). I still have doubt.
1.I feel my kids deserve to grow up in a two family home.
2. Two the kids ( mainly my son) says that he prayed for it to work.
3. For the first time ever in our soon to be 17teen years he never asked me to pray with him our even that he prayed for us.
4. I don't want other men around my kids
****The Cons***
1. I love him to death but I can't stand the thought of being back in love with him ( If that make sense).
2. I don't think that he will be my friend If I walk away.
3. I've out grown him
4. My emotions are based on guilt ( he needs me to stir him the right way. every time I walk away something bad happens to him. He is some what more careful with making choices if I'm with him, I don't want to hurt his feelings_5 That sucka will not take it lightly.6. i don't want him
Help me out you guys. "I REFUSE TO PRAY FOR OUR MARRIAGE TO HEAL...DOES THAT MEAN ALL THIS TIME AM I PARTIAL THE CAUSE BECAUSE I DID NOT ASK GOD HELP IN THE SITUATION? IM I SELFISH BECAUSE I PRAY FOR US TO BE FRIENDS?
Thursday, April 22, 2010
"Never doubt that a small group of thoughtful committed citizens can change the world. Indeed, it is the only thing that ever has." —Margaret Mead
I thank all the ladies that have been sharing their stories/wisdom with us. feel free to start an discussion( alana105bl@gmail.com) about whatever God put on your heart. If you can post your comment on the blog under comments. if not it's OK. thank you again and be blessed.
My Daily Verse
Here is your Verse of the Day:
James 4:7 (NIV). Submit yourselves, then, to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you....... Thoughts on This Verse... Let's admit it. Most of us would like for spiritual growth to be easy. We want our ability to withstand temptation to require little effort. We... want the Holy Spirit to do the work and God to protect us from too much stress and strain. Thankfully, God does empower us through his Holy Spirit. However, he does remind us that for the Spirit to work powerfully in our lives, we must intentionally submit our wills to God and we must resist the devil. If we will put up a fight against him and his temptations, he will flee from us. Let's do our part, trusting that God will more than uphold his promises!
James 4:7 (NIV). Submit yourselves, then, to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you....... Thoughts on This Verse... Let's admit it. Most of us would like for spiritual growth to be easy. We want our ability to withstand temptation to require little effort. We... want the Holy Spirit to do the work and God to protect us from too much stress and strain. Thankfully, God does empower us through his Holy Spirit. However, he does remind us that for the Spirit to work powerfully in our lives, we must intentionally submit our wills to God and we must resist the devil. If we will put up a fight against him and his temptations, he will flee from us. Let's do our part, trusting that God will more than uphold his promises!
Sunday, April 18, 2010
He who finds a wife finds a good thing.
The bible says that he who find a wife find a good thing. but what about her that finds a husband? O I get it we as women are not suppose to look for a husband instead we are suppose to prepare our self for the one god sends to look for us "God has designed someone just for us." What we need to do is take the time to learn God, Love God and everything else will fall in place. I think because we go out seeking for man love we miss out on god love and all that he has in store for us. We are blind when it come to men . Yeah I know a lot of us think we know it all, blah blah... but do we really how many of us are with the first one that we thought we loved. and if we are how many of us can say that they are truly happy.
That's. just my thought;feel free to share and give some insight.
That's. just my thought;feel free to share and give some insight.
Saturday, April 17, 2010
When Love Isn't Enough
When Love Isn’t Enough
Somewhere in between
The breaks in our relationship
I forgot him
And he lost sight of me
Cause he don’t see me the same
And I only see myself through his eyes
Now we’re one person
And who I am is gone
We don’t talk no more
Cause he don’t speak to me the same
And I don’t listen like I use too
So conversation ain’t needed
The passion of our 1st encounter
No longer exist
He don’t touch me the same
And my body can’t respond
Playful lust has been replaced
With sexual mechanics
It would be an understatement
To say that our love
For one another
Is diminishing rapidly
Since it now feels like sedated comfort
I’m beginning to wonder
If it’s worth it
But when I feel like
Throwing in the towel
I realize that relationships
Don’t always go as planned
And sometimes staying
Is harder than leaving
by Shameiah Bonds
Somewhere in between
The breaks in our relationship
I forgot him
And he lost sight of me
Cause he don’t see me the same
And I only see myself through his eyes
Now we’re one person
And who I am is gone
We don’t talk no more
Cause he don’t speak to me the same
And I don’t listen like I use too
So conversation ain’t needed
The passion of our 1st encounter
No longer exist
He don’t touch me the same
And my body can’t respond
Playful lust has been replaced
With sexual mechanics
It would be an understatement
To say that our love
For one another
Is diminishing rapidly
Since it now feels like sedated comfort
I’m beginning to wonder
If it’s worth it
But when I feel like
Throwing in the towel
I realize that relationships
Don’t always go as planned
And sometimes staying
Is harder than leaving
by Shameiah Bonds
Before I knew Jesus
Before I knew Jesus I only liked myself, when I met him I cared about myself... Once I started to build a realtionship with him, I started luvn myself. Now tht we are closer then I had been before not only do I luv,care about me. I feel the same way about everyone else...
April 1 at 8:00pm ·
April 1 at 8:00pm ·
Love yourself
MyEgoMyPride
I need them both;one 2 think big, the other to live it.
I'm 2 selfish 2 settle for less,2 talented not 2 be the best, My ego wont go 4 anythg less. she checked me b4. got all n my face "Girl u 2 fly,mind 2 strong, u belong n da spot light. I use wonder "is dis chick tryn to make a fool of me? " til I saw the reflection n her eyes"A Greater me!" My pride I luv her. never brag bout wut she do,wut she got. Jus plsd with the fact of known it.
MyEgoMyPride~MyLife
I need them both;one 2 think big, the other to live it.
I'm 2 selfish 2 settle for less,2 talented not 2 be the best, My ego wont go 4 anythg less. she checked me b4. got all n my face "Girl u 2 fly,mind 2 strong, u belong n da spot light. I use wonder "is dis chick tryn to make a fool of me? " til I saw the reflection n her eyes"A Greater me!" My pride I luv her. never brag bout wut she do,wut she got. Jus plsd with the fact of known it.
MyEgoMyPride~MyLife
Lady & Women
When the mind of a woman & lady combine, jus no anybody will be able 2luv her,or fool her into luvn them. Women r mature n ego driven. Ladies r wise,classy, and prideful the two is " A very special person" if ur not one of "her kind(special)" she will not let u in! Ha.
I'm Fed Up
Oh u mad, u fed up?
KUZ im coming to your block mess'n ur head up,disrespect'n ur man hood,using words that not only burn but hurt. Rather it's false or true; I don't give "You know what!" Im sayn any and everything so u can feel my pain.
Yo boys laughn,they clown;cause yet again ur chick is fed up..
Move something/do something.. Nigga I dare ya...Dnt get mad now! u brought da noise,change da game.... Take it how u wanna to; it's wutever my nigga.One more step and I promise I'm pull da triger...
" So wut!" "shut up!" "you sayn all that, to say what?" Alright I told u, dnt say,
" I didnt warn'n u... my gun is loaded..ready to make the noise of "a Women Fed up!"
HA?....
LOL...Boy I tell you, those were the days.....gangster,classy,homey,nerd,square,black,white,mexican don't matter a female feelings aint to be played with...I'm glad somebody was prayn for me,God only knows where I would of been...I pray never no moe...nooooo
KUZ im coming to your block mess'n ur head up,disrespect'n ur man hood,using words that not only burn but hurt. Rather it's false or true; I don't give "You know what!" Im sayn any and everything so u can feel my pain.
Yo boys laughn,they clown;cause yet again ur chick is fed up..
Move something/do something.. Nigga I dare ya...Dnt get mad now! u brought da noise,change da game.... Take it how u wanna to; it's wutever my nigga.One more step and I promise I'm pull da triger...
" So wut!" "shut up!" "you sayn all that, to say what?" Alright I told u, dnt say,
" I didnt warn'n u... my gun is loaded..ready to make the noise of "a Women Fed up!"
HA?....
LOL...Boy I tell you, those were the days.....gangster,classy,homey,nerd,square,black,white,mexican don't matter a female feelings aint to be played with...I'm glad somebody was prayn for me,God only knows where I would of been...I pray never no moe...nooooo
He got me asking , "is it me?"
Is it me the reason why I fuss and fight? Is it me the reason I cant sleep at night? Is it me, man this is krazy! Contemplating and waiting..livin stressed and depressed; wondering if da lord is tryn to teach me a lesson. Should I pray and wait? or say F it and walk away... its only so much a women can take...over n over he say he gon change and over, over u lose to his game..but because ur luv is so try, u ply prayn u win...and n da end u look like a fool yet again. Is it me the reason y i fuss n fight, is it me? Man this sh*t is krazy.....secret celluar phones, naked pictures on Aim, let not textn, tryn to see wut hoe will fall for ur game....now u busted n ur chick found out what she already knew,,yet n still she contemplating on wut she should do....is it me ?".....Ha! To be cont...
5 ways to know he don't want you anymore
First off you know he don't want you, never wanted you, no longer want you because you can feel it in your heart. We as women have that special tpuch from God that allows us to be wise even when we do not want it. Just because we do not want to know the truth does not mean we want encounter or feel the truth. But since a lot of us want to play silly, like I did then I will be more then happy to share with you; how I knew he didnt want me anymore.
1. He didn't look at me the same way he did on yesterday.
2. He act like everything I say or do bothers him.
3. He have an excuse as to why we can't spend time together.
4. He has no time.
5. He don't hold you at night.
1. He didn't look at me the same way he did on yesterday.
2. He act like everything I say or do bothers him.
3. He have an excuse as to why we can't spend time together.
4. He has no time.
5. He don't hold you at night.
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