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Shemeiah Bonds I want some feedback.....So I was sitting here thinking and I've come to the conclusion that we have all been in relationships that fell apart for some reason or another ....But, as women we it seems we will lower our standards and accept less for the wrong man...yet we won't swallow our pride or humble ourselves for the right man ....Y
Monday, May 17, 2010
Forgiveness
*** Forgiveness is not a matter of forgetting. Forgiving is a present action; forgetting is a process
of time.
Forgiveness plays a big part in our relationship with the Lord along with Faith but that Is another topic, faith that is.
My cousin and I had a discussion the other day about forgiveness and the levels of forgiveness, something I wasn't aware of. Example, I say I forgive my husband for all the wrong he have done to me, however, I still have flash backs and become angry and disgusted by his prior actions.
Yes, it has a lot to do with trust but forgiveness is the main key.
Another Example, a few people in my family I believe wrong me for as being two face, users, back stabbers etc... and although I love them and say I forgive them and pray for them there is still a place in my heart that hold on to the past. I NEVER KNEW THAT....until this past weekend....
Although I forgave I will never allow you to get close to again ( my defense tack) because I no longer trust you.. yeah, I can hang laugh and talk with you but the bond we once had will never be the same... AND THAT'S BAD ( remember my opinion) because we ask the Lord to forgive us for all the wrong we have done and he do just that..... he throw it into the sea of forgetfulness, right? But.. at the same time We weep what we sow ( we still will be punished for our own actions, so we can learn from our faults) !!!! Actual I'm becoming confused ( God is not a God of confusion, so the devil is in my ear trying to twist me up) so I need my prayer worries to help me me pray for clarity and strength to forgive each and everyone that has caused me to carry this burden....I also ask that my people have been blessed the ability to teach ( explain) give me some feed back!!!
Note: This is truly a battle for me, I love hard and care harder but I refused to be played or treated less then the way I treat you..stranger or no stranger.... I will give my last, will hurt for you, worry about your problem and it has nothing to do with me.....so I know I have a heart but????? I lost.. Help your sister.. Be Blessed!!
Don't for get you can always email me to add an discussion or topic..
of time.
Forgiveness plays a big part in our relationship with the Lord along with Faith but that Is another topic, faith that is.
My cousin and I had a discussion the other day about forgiveness and the levels of forgiveness, something I wasn't aware of. Example, I say I forgive my husband for all the wrong he have done to me, however, I still have flash backs and become angry and disgusted by his prior actions.
Yes, it has a lot to do with trust but forgiveness is the main key.
Another Example, a few people in my family I believe wrong me for as being two face, users, back stabbers etc... and although I love them and say I forgive them and pray for them there is still a place in my heart that hold on to the past. I NEVER KNEW THAT....until this past weekend....
Although I forgave I will never allow you to get close to again ( my defense tack) because I no longer trust you.. yeah, I can hang laugh and talk with you but the bond we once had will never be the same... AND THAT'S BAD ( remember my opinion) because we ask the Lord to forgive us for all the wrong we have done and he do just that..... he throw it into the sea of forgetfulness, right? But.. at the same time We weep what we sow ( we still will be punished for our own actions, so we can learn from our faults) !!!! Actual I'm becoming confused ( God is not a God of confusion, so the devil is in my ear trying to twist me up) so I need my prayer worries to help me me pray for clarity and strength to forgive each and everyone that has caused me to carry this burden....I also ask that my people have been blessed the ability to teach ( explain) give me some feed back!!!
Note: This is truly a battle for me, I love hard and care harder but I refused to be played or treated less then the way I treat you..stranger or no stranger.... I will give my last, will hurt for you, worry about your problem and it has nothing to do with me.....so I know I have a heart but????? I lost.. Help your sister.. Be Blessed!!
Don't for get you can always email me to add an discussion or topic..
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